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Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Try Not to Look Like a Tourist

 

Because we are planning our travels, all sorts of travel related posts come up on my social media feeds. One that appeared recently was asking about pickpockets, I think in Italy and if it had got worse since their last visit three years previously. 


A couple of things struck me in the responses. Firstly, how lackadaisical people are about their personal belongings in their home town. There are opportunist thieves everywhere so you should be careful wherever you are. Although it is easier to replace your lost items in your own country especially where there is no language issue.


Secondly, although most of the responses were helpful there were a few that said “don't look like a tourist”. And that misses out on the whole point of visiting other places. You want to look up, around, stop and take in all you see. Look at a map, nowadays on your phone, but many people still carry the paper maps issued by tourist information. In other words by not looking like a tourist you miss out on the whole point of being somewhere else. There was one response that said they totally look like a tourist, they take photos ask others to take photos. It was a change for a realistic response.


While I was composing this post, I received a message from a friend about what shoes to wear in Rome because she didn't want to look totally like an American tourist. An interesting question because she's going to be touristing and as soon as she speaks it will be obvious she is not local. I refrained from advising her to not be an obnoxious American and not to expect everything to be the same as home.